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Updated: Feb 13

Posted on 11 January, 2016 at 1:00

There are many people who are single, and are looking for that special person to spend their life with. I believe that marriage is an amazing thing ordained by our heavenly Father. I also believe that there is someone for everyone no matter race, color or size. However, I am a strong believer that unless God is in the selection process, you may end up in a messed up situation (no seriously I have seen and heard some crazy stories).


When God is involved in the selection, He can find a perfect match for you. Because he knows the real you! Why I say the real you? Because there are parts of you that you haven't even realized yet! Let me give you an example; have you ever told yourself that there are somethings that you just would not do, then you get thrown into a situation where your back was pushed against the wall, and that very thing you said you would not do, you did? I have news for you, God knew that you would do it, because he knows the you, you haven't met yet!


It's really easy to say what you will and won't do before you’re in a situation where you must do something. That's why it's so important to let God be your match maker because He knows exactly what you would do in that situation (catch this) and how you need your mate to respond to your action! I heard this saying "The way you know if someone really loves you is, when all hell is breaking loose and their standing in the fire with you" (to that I say Lord send them!). God knows who is going to stand by your side through the good times, the bad times, sad times, when you're acting crazy ( hello somebody! y'all know I'm talking right!) when you're having a valley moment or on the mountain top experience.


That's why it is so important to do what the Bible says " But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you". I know we do all different kinds of things to try and find that special person to spend our life with. Some people use dating website or read all kinds of self help books; like how to find your soulmate for dummies (I'm just kidding, but there might really be a book entitled that). Seriously; people will look to many different avenues to find that person that they can love forever. I have applied the word of God to every aspect of my life and it worked! That's why I believe that if I seek God and all his righteousness that, health, purpose, destiny, prosperity, blessings, favor and my soulmate will be added unto me!


Listen I know that sometimes it gets a little lonely when you’re single, especially when you have the mindset holiness is still right! Listen there are a lot of people who are single but don't have a mindset that holiness is still right; or present their bodies as a living sacrifice holy and acceptable (I'm going to leave that alone, however I'm talking right!) I know sometimes we sit back and question when is it going to happen, when is my time. I wanna encourage you to continue seeking the Kingdom of God and all his righteousness, and watch how He is going to start adding to you!

People of God listen our Heavenly Father is an all knowing God. The Bible says that our Heavenly Father knows what we need before we even ask, however(watch this) the Bible also says will a father give their child a serpent that ask for a fish. When God gives you you're mate, you didn't have to worry if they are a creepy crawler. You can have confidence that they will be nourishment that will feed your heart, mind and soul that you may flourish! My brothers and sisters I pray that you wait on the Lord, and again I say wait!


Evangelist Banks

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